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Boundaries for Christian Leaders

Safeguard your community with wise and faithful frameworks.

About this Course

A hand stops a line of falling wooden dominoes on a dark surface, preventing them from toppling the remaining pieces.

What you’ll learn:

The theory, theology, and practice of cultivating healthy boundaries as a faith leader.
Why boundaries are a gift from God, and how shared boundaries strengthen communities.
Methods for identifying areas where personal and community boundaries need improvement.
Frameworks for creating community guidelines and covenants around boundaries.
Resources for ensuring the safety of children and youth in your church.
Best practices for safeguarding and tracking finances with appropriate boundaries and a stewardship mindset.

Have you ever seen the fallout when boundaries in ministry break down—or were never set in the first place? It can happen in relationships, when things start to blur and feel not-quite-appropriate, or it can happen when a ministry leader gets caught in a pattern of sacrificing time and energy beyond what’s healthy. It can happen in youth ministry, or in a church’s financial practices, or in how church members communicate with one another. So how can you be a part of stewarding and safeguarding your community through the cultivation of clear and wisely-designed boundaries?

Boundaries for Christian Leaders was designed to equip ministry leaders with wisdom, theology, and practical tools for setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in every area of ministry. Boundaries aren’t walls meant to restrict: they’re a gift from God, and they’re necessary. Intentional frameworks for maintaining appropriate boundaries can allow you and those you serve to thrive. This course lays a foundation of theological insight and real-world application, so that church leaders can navigate everything from sexuality to technology with clarity, integrity, and grace.

Modules

Welcome

Get oriented to the course, meet your instructor, download the interactive handbook, and more.

God’s Gift of Boundaries

In this module you will:

  • Learn how boundaries are a gift from God.
  • Develop godly humility and discernment.
  • Identify your own and your community's healthy boundaries.

Interpersonal Boundaries

In this module you will:

  • Learn principles for establishing and maintaining healthy interpersonal boundaries around energy and time.
  • Celebrate your identity in Christ.
  • Identify areas for interpersonal boundary improvement.

Physical and Sexual Boundaries

In this module you will:

  • Learn principles for establishing and maintaining healthy physical and sexual boundaries personally and in your organization.
  • Express gratitude for the gift of sexuality and the responsibilities that accompany it.
  • Develop a set of guidelines to establish and maintain these boundaries.

Boundaries with Children and Youth

In this module you will:

  • Learn why children and youth need special care.
  • Appreciate childlike faith.
  • Develop a resource list for ensuring the safety of children and youth in your church.

Financial Boundaries

In this module you will:

  • Learn best principles for safeguarding and tracking finances.
  • Develop a stewardship mindset.
  • Examine your ministry's financial practices.

Data and Digital Boundaries

In this module you will:

  • Learn principles for keeping your ministry's data and digital platforms safe.
  • Develop spiritual practices around technology.
  • Examine your ministry's strengths and weaknesses in this area.

Boundaries in Community

In this module you will:

  • Learn how shared boundaries can strengthen your community.
  • Develop gratitude for God's gift of co-laborers.
  • Experiment with a community covenant and a plan for addressing boundary problems.

Completing the Course

Find out your next steps as you complete the course. You'll also be encouraged to submit feedback about your course.

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Get to Know Your Instructors

Terri Elton

Dean of Academic Affairs and Professor of Leadership

Terri Martinson Elton began teaching at Luther Seminary as an adjunct instructor in 2004 before becoming the director of the Center for Children, Youth and Family Ministry in 2008. In addition to her continued work with the Center, Elton accepted the position of associate professor of Children, Youth and Family Ministry in 2010 and associate professor of Leadership in 2014.

Prior to her call to Luther Seminary, Elton served as an associate to the bishop in the Saint Paul Area Synod where her responsibilities included working with congregations, leadership development, First Call theological education and youth and family ministry.

Before her work in the synod, she served at Prince of Peace Lutheran Church in Burnsville, Minn. for 16 years. While at Prince of Peace she worked in various roles within children, youth and family ministries, as well as served as the director of Changing Church Forum, an outreach ministry of Prince of Peace. She also authored To Know, To Live, To Grow, a confirmation curriculum, and co-authored What Really Matters, a book for congregational leaders, with the Rev. Mike Foss.

Elton holds a B.A. degree in communications from Concordia College in Moorhead, Minn. (1986). She earned both her M.A. (1998) and Ph.D. (2007) degrees in Congregational Mission and Leadership from Luther Seminary.

Elton’s research and teaching interests include: congregational leadership, leading in the midst of change and conflict, helping ministry leaders craft a missional ecclesiology with an eye toward the First Third of Life, awakening a vibrant theology of baptism and vocation and reimagining faith and mission practices for children, youth, young adults and their families.

Elton is a member of the Academy of Religious Leadership, the Association of Youth Ministry Educators, the ELCA Youth Ministry Network and the American Society of Missiology and is on the board for Real Resources. Elton spends much of her time working with congregations and congregational leaders and seeks out opportunities for enhancing ministry with those in the First Third of Life within the ELCA.

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What to Expect with a Faith+Lead Academy Course

You’ll get a transformative learning experience that combines trustworthy theological teaching with spiritual practices, interactive elements, and a supportive online community.

Know

Expand your theological toolkit with fresh insights for today’s ministry landscape. Connect timeless wisdom with practical frameworks for navigating change.

Deepen your spiritual identity through transformative practices. Move from doing church to being church in ways that nurture authentic discipleship.

Practice skills to lead confidently in your ministry context. Take actionable steps to invite your community into God’s unfolding story.

Every Academy course is designed to

Help your growth in one of these core areas:

connect with god

Develop a Christ-centered identity, grounded in theology, scripture, and spiritual practice, that empowers community members to live as disciples of Jesus Christ in everyday life.

Tell the story of Jesus and invite neighbors into Jesus’ way of life and love through words and actions they can recognize.

community

Listen deeply, name God’s presence in the midst of everyday life, and form life-giving relationships across all dimensions of diversity—both within and beyond the church.

Through mutual relationships with the neighbors among whom you’re hosted, join in acts of compassion, justice, and reconciliation as a witness to the ministry of Jesus—especially in places of suffering and despair.

ministry models

Harness skills of agile leadership, stewardship, fundraising, entrepreneurism, and management to be nimble enough to respond to a changing cultural landscape.

Frequently Asked Questions

Academy courses consist of 6-10 lessons or modules, each walking you through the “know, be, do” learning framework. You’ll learn some new information with instructor videos and other resources (know). You’ll engage in a spiritual practice that will help you develop your faith around the topic (be). Then, you’ll be asked to apply what you’ve learned through activities completed online or in the “real world” (do).

Each module is designed to take 15-45 minutes. Some learners complete the course in as little as one day. Some do a module a day or even a module a week. We suggest allowing some time between modules to process what you are learning, but not so much time that you lose momentum.

Each course includes a flexible leader’s guide with multiple pathways for group facilitation. You’ll find thought-provoking discussion questions and practical activities that connect faith with daily life, designed to work with whatever preparation time you have available. These resources equip you to foster meaningful discipleship experiences that meet your community where they are.

The private online group allows you to connect with others. Because our courses don’t have a required start or stop date, you will encounter others in different places in the course and even in different courses altogether. This is by design. Feel free to interact as much or as little as you like.

Reach out via email to faithlead@luthersem.edu with your question and we’ll get back to you with a response within two business days.

The best way to connect with us is to complete this form with your suggestion. We always want to hear your feedback. You may also include it in the comments section of the course evaluation.

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Email us at faithlead@luthersem.edu for more information. We’ll be delighted to connect!

One-time purchase

With Faith+Lead Membership

One-time purchase

Get a free public display license to use for group study.

*by joining Faith+Lead Membership for just $19.95 per month

7 Modules

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Lifetime Access