Reflections

Engaging our entire community in a practice of mindful, joyful rest

Graduated levels of boundaries are far better than a wall of silence

How growing up in a denomination that didn't ordain women opened me up to the bigness of God.

Toward loving all parts of ourselves: on why we need to talk about sexuality in church

Start with trust, commitment and depth of care.

The boundaries I put in place that allow me to serve—healthfully!—in more than one vocation.

Why you—yes, you!—need to practice Sabbath.

Time away for pastors is good for the congregation too

Communicate well your congregation’s personality

How new boundaries and rituals can help you through periods of transition.

How to simplify...simply!

What to do when helping hurts.

When church teachings or experiences cause trauma

A “Dare to Lead” facilitator names what’s at stake in setting, and reinforcing, healthy boundaries.

Do we want to be part of the harm or healing of racial trauma?