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Emotional Intelligence for Ministry

Wisdom for ministering to hearts and minds—including your own.

About this Course

Emotional Intelligence for Ministry invites you to explore the ups and downs of working with people with a grounding in theology and psychology, providing a practical guide for developing emotional intelligence skills that will help you lead with confidence and compassion.

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What you’ll learn:

Why your emotional intelligence matters—for your own wellbeing and the good of those around you.
Skills for addressing conflict in a way that fosters understanding and peace.
Habits for building stronger relationships through healthy boundaries and relational maturity.
Strategies for communicating effectively and gracefully, grounded in the biblical model of speaking the truth in love.
Why resilience and sustainability are essential for ministry—and how to cultivate them.
How boundaries and needs are interrelated.
Postures for listening to God and growing in faith through emotionally intelligent practices.
Ways to recognize your own strengths and growth areas.
The power of small daily habits in strengthening emotional intelligence.
What it looks like to navigate change and transition with emotional awareness and trust in God.
How to incorporate play and joy into your daily life and ministry.
A plan for applying what you’ve learned in practical, lasting ways.

As a ministry leader, how do you handle the ups and downs of working with people—wondrously-created, precious-and-beloved, sometimes-difficult people? How do you manage stress, stay grounded, and respond with empathy and grace when emotions are high and relationships are in conflict?

Emotional Intelligence for Ministry invites you to explore these questions with a grounding in theology and psychology, providing a practical guide for developing emotional intelligence skills that will help you lead with confidence and compassion. You’ll dive into the foundations of self-awareness, emotional regulation, methods for addressing conflict, and other key ministry skills.

Through reflective exercises and practical strategies, you’ll explore how to set healthy emotional boundaries, work through conflict constructively, and build resilience for the long haul. You’ll also identify small, daily habits that can create lasting change in how you show up for others—and yourself. With curiosity and care, we’ll journey with you as you grow into a more intentional, empathetic, and sustainable leader.

Modules

Foundations of Emotional Intelligence

In this module you will:

  • Develop a working definition of emotional intelligence for ministry work.
  • Reflect on your own strengths and weakness.
  • Listen to God's leading as you begin the course.

Understanding Needs and Setting Boundaries

In this module you will:

  • Recognize common needs and understand how boundaries and needs are interrelated.
  • Develop communication skills for establishing boundaries.
  • Rest in the God who meets all of your needs.

Being Effective in Relationships

In this module you will:

  • Learn and practice principles for effective relationships.
  • Establish habits for relationship building.
  • Recognize the image of God in all people that you encounter.

Gracefully Navigating Conflict

In this module you will:

  • Learn and practice skills for conflict management.
  • Develop graceful and effective communication habits.
  • Examine biblical models for speaking the truth in love.

Practicing Resilience and Sustainability

In this module you will:

  • Understand the importance of resilience and sustainability in ministry.
  • Develop habits for resilience and sustainability.
  • Develop a willingness to obey God around rest and boundaries.

Grief and Hope: Finding Strength in Transition

In this module you will:

  • Understand the emotions involved with navigating change.
  • Reflect on your own experiences with transition, grief and hope.
  • Find strength in God's provision.

The Power of Play and Joy

In this module you will:

  • Understand the emotional and spiritual benefits of play and joy.
  • Develop habits to incorporate play and joy into your life and ministry.
  • Enjoy time with God.

Moving Forward

In this module you will:

  • Reflect on and assess your own emotional intelligence.
  • Develop a plan to apply your learning.
  • Rest in the empowerment of the Holy Spirit as you move forward.

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Get to Know Your Instructors

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Jeff Challberg

Manager of Clinical Pastor Education, Fairview Health Services

The Rev. Jeff Challberg is the manager of Clinical Pastor Education at Fairview Health Services. He has worked in chaplaincy and spiritual care education since 2014, and has served in both acute care and senior living contexts. He is ordained in the American Baptist Churches, USA, and received his MDiv from the University of Chicago Divinity School. Jeff enjoys being active through weightlifting. He finds that emotional health is well understood through metaphors of athletics, including knowing when to rest.

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Leah Challberg

Mental Health Therapist at Rootwise Mental Wellness

Leah Challberg, LICSW, owns and operates Rootwise Mental Wellness as a mental health therapist. She was the co-lead pastor at Northeast United Methodist in Minneapolis from 2018-2022. Her therapy work has led to an expertise in trauma, aging, chronic illness, spirituality, and grief and loss. Leah obtained her MDiv from the University of Chicago Divinity School and her MSW (Master of Social Work) from Loyola University Chicago. She was an avid player of softball and volleyball, which led to her breaking her nose twice. She loves to play Dungeons & Dragons.

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What to Expect with a Faith+Lead Academy Course

You’ll get a transformative learning experience that combines trustworthy theological teaching with spiritual practices, interactive elements, and a supportive online community.

Know

Expand your theological toolkit with fresh insights for today’s ministry landscape. Connect timeless wisdom with practical frameworks for navigating change.

Deepen your spiritual identity through transformative practices. Move from doing church to being church in ways that nurture authentic discipleship.

Practice skills to lead confidently in your ministry context. Take actionable steps to invite your community into God’s unfolding story.

Every Academy course is designed to

Help your growth in one of these core areas:

connect with god

Develop a Christ-centered identity, grounded in theology, scripture, and spiritual practice, that empowers community members to live as disciples of Jesus Christ in everyday life.

Tell the story of Jesus and invite neighbors into Jesus’ way of life and love through words and actions they can recognize.

community

Listen deeply, name God’s presence in the midst of everyday life, and form life-giving relationships across all dimensions of diversity—both within and beyond the church.

Through mutual relationships with the neighbors among whom you’re hosted, join in acts of compassion, justice, and reconciliation as a witness to the ministry of Jesus—especially in places of suffering and despair.

ministry models

Harness skills of agile leadership, stewardship, fundraising, entrepreneurism, and management to be nimble enough to respond to a changing cultural landscape.

Frequently Asked Questions

Academy courses consist of 6-10 lessons or modules, each walking you through the “know, be, do” learning framework. You’ll learn some new information with instructor videos and other resources (know). You’ll engage in a spiritual practice that will help you develop your faith around the topic (be). Then, you’ll be asked to apply what you’ve learned through activities completed online or in the “real world” (do).

Each module is designed to take 15-45 minutes. Some learners complete the course in as little as one day. Some do a module a day or even a module a week. We suggest allowing some time between modules to process what you are learning, but not so much time that you lose momentum.

Each course includes a flexible leader’s guide with multiple pathways for group facilitation. You’ll find thought-provoking discussion questions and practical activities that connect faith with daily life, designed to work with whatever preparation time you have available. These resources equip you to foster meaningful discipleship experiences that meet your community where they are.

The private online group allows you to connect with others. Because our courses don’t have a required start or stop date, you will encounter others in different places in the course and even in different courses altogether. This is by design. Feel free to interact as much or as little as you like.

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10 Modules

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