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#180: Rethinking the Christian Prayer Life

Wesley Ellis makes a case that will reframe the way you think about prayer

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What if prayer isn’t all up to us?

In this episode of the Pivot Podcast, host Dwight Zscheile sits down with the Rev. Dr. Wesley Ellis, pastor of First Congregational Church in Ramona, California and author of Abiding in Amen: Prayer in a Secular Age. Wes makes a case that will reframe the way you think about prayer: in a world that turns everything into a project, prayer has been quietly swallowed up by the same logic. One more discipline to optimize. One more area where we’re not doing enough.

But scripture, Wes argues, tells a different story. Prayer is primarily something God does. What we’re invited into is not an achievement but a participation, and that changes everything about how we lead, how we rest, and how we understand the Christian prayer life.

In this conversation, Dwight and Wes explore:

  • Why so many pastors and church leaders carry guilt about their prayer lives
  • How the culture of optimization has reshaped the way we think about prayer
  • What “pray without ceasing” means when prayer is God’s action, not ours
  • How a local congregation can become a praying church in the deepest sense
  • Why prayer may be the one thing that gets us off the hamster wheel altogether

Whether you’re a pastor, a lay leader, or someone who has quietly given up on prayer, this conversation is worth your time.

Featuring

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Wesley W. Ellis
Senior Pastor, First Congregational Church of Ramona, San Diego, California

Rev. Dr. Wesley Ellis is the Pastor of First Congregational Church in Ramona, California. He also serves as a Visiting Instructor for Children, Youth, and Family Ministry at Luther Seminary and as Managing Editor of Flourish: A Journal of Progressive Ministry. He holds a Ph.D. in Practical Theology from the University of Aberdeen, an M.Div. and an MA in Christian Education from Princeton Theological Seminary, and a Bachelor’s in Theology and Biblical Studies from Azusa Pacific University. He is the author of Abiding in Amen: Prayer in a Secular Age, which explores why prayer feels so difficult for so many people today and argues that the problem is not a lack of discipline or effort, but a deeper cultural and theological one rooted in modernity’s obsession with control, productivity, and human agency. Wes lives in Ramona with his wife Amanda and their two children, Henry and Bonnie.

Host

Faith+Lead Headshot of The Rev. Dr. Dwight Zscheile, VP of Innovation, Luther Seminary.
Dwight Zscheile
Professor of Congregational Mission and Leadership, Luther Seminary, St. Paul, Minnesota

The Rev. Dr. Dwight Zscheile is professor of congregational mission and leadership at Luther Seminary in St. Paul, Minnesota.

He is the author of Embracing the Mixed Ecology (with Blair Pogue, Seabury Books, 2025), Leading Faithful Innovation: Following God into a Hopeful Future (with Michael Binder and Tessa Pinkstaff, Fortress 2023), Participating in God’s Mission: A Theological Missiology for the U.S. (with Craig Van Gelder, Eerdmans 2018), The Agile Church: Spirit-Led Innovation in an Uncertain Age (Morehouse Publishing, 2014), People of the Way: Renewing Episcopal Identity (Morehouse Publishing, 2012) and The Missional Church in Perspective: Mapping Trends and Shaping the Conversation (with Craig Van Gelder, Baker Academic 2011), editor of Cultivating Sent Communities: Missional Spiritual Formation (Eerdmans, 2012), and co-editor (with Ed Olsworth-Peter) of The Starter’s Way: Leading New Contextual Christian Communities (Church Publishing, 2025).

A graduate of Stanford University (B.A.), Yale University (M.Div.), and Luther Seminary (Ph.D., Congregational Mission and Leadership), Dwight previously served congregations in Minnesota, Virginia, and Connecticut. Dwight’s experience growing up in a secular home in California has shaped his commitment to helping the church cultivate Christian community with neighbors in today’s changing world.

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Featuring

Wesley W. Ellis headshot
Wesley W. Ellis
Senior Pastor, First Congregational Church of Ramona, San Diego, California

Rev. Dr. Wesley Ellis is the Pastor of First Congregational Church in Ramona, California. He also serves as a Visiting Instructor for Children, Youth, and Family Ministry at Luther Seminary and as Managing Editor of Flourish: A Journal of Progressive Ministry. He holds a Ph.D. in Practical Theology from the University of Aberdeen, an M.Div. and an MA in Christian Education from Princeton Theological Seminary, and a Bachelor’s in Theology and Biblical Studies from Azusa Pacific University. He is the author of Abiding in Amen: Prayer in a Secular Age, which explores why prayer feels so difficult for so many people today and argues that the problem is not a lack of discipline or effort, but a deeper cultural and theological one rooted in modernity’s obsession with control, productivity, and human agency. Wes lives in Ramona with his wife Amanda and their two children, Henry and Bonnie.

Host

Faith+Lead Headshot of The Rev. Dr. Dwight Zscheile, VP of Innovation, Luther Seminary.
Dwight Zscheile
Professor of Congregational Mission and Leadership, Luther Seminary, St. Paul, Minnesota

The Rev. Dr. Dwight Zscheile is professor of congregational mission and leadership at Luther Seminary in St. Paul, Minnesota.

He is the author of Embracing the Mixed Ecology (with Blair Pogue, Seabury Books, 2025), Leading Faithful Innovation: Following God into a Hopeful Future (with Michael Binder and Tessa Pinkstaff, Fortress 2023), Participating in God’s Mission: A Theological Missiology for the U.S. (with Craig Van Gelder, Eerdmans 2018), The Agile Church: Spirit-Led Innovation in an Uncertain Age (Morehouse Publishing, 2014), People of the Way: Renewing Episcopal Identity (Morehouse Publishing, 2012) and The Missional Church in Perspective: Mapping Trends and Shaping the Conversation (with Craig Van Gelder, Baker Academic 2011), editor of Cultivating Sent Communities: Missional Spiritual Formation (Eerdmans, 2012), and co-editor (with Ed Olsworth-Peter) of The Starter’s Way: Leading New Contextual Christian Communities (Church Publishing, 2025).

A graduate of Stanford University (B.A.), Yale University (M.Div.), and Luther Seminary (Ph.D., Congregational Mission and Leadership), Dwight previously served congregations in Minnesota, Virginia, and Connecticut. Dwight’s experience growing up in a secular home in California has shaped his commitment to helping the church cultivate Christian community with neighbors in today’s changing world.